The World

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I would like to introduce guest writer Karl Dahlfred, a missionary serving in Thailand. He writes about what we missionaries probably all feel when it comes to serving in a foreign country away from our homeland. ⏤nils

When a new missionary first gets to the mission field, it is obvious where home is. It is that place where you just left. It is the place where you grew up, went to school, got an education, discovered a church family, and formed your most important relationships. 

But when you live overseas long enough, a strange transition takes place.

Your “home” country doesn’t quite feel like home anymore. When you “go home”, some of the same people and places are there, but life has moved on in your absence. When you show up for the so-called “home assignment” or “furlough,” you can not just pick up where you left off. You are a visitor. An outsider. A guest without a permanent role.  Your close friends have made new close friends. Half the people in your home church only know you as a line item on a list of prayer requests.  Some new technology, slang, or cultural trend has become commonplace… expect for you because you missed it when it first came out.

On the mission field, you said things like, “Back in my count . . . ” but few local people in your host country could relate to your story. They listened politely but you knew they didn’t really understand. But that’s okay. You comfort yourself with the thought, “People back home would understand me.”

But strangely enough, those people back home who were sure to understand . . . well, they don’t.  Now that you are home, you are full of experiences and stories from the place that has become your second home. You say things like, “Back in my host country . . . ” But, of course, whatever story you tell them about your host country is hard to relate to. The things that you really miss about your host country receive a blank stare, or a “That’s weird.” After your quaint tale is done, people go back to talking about the local sports team, the latest in national politics, or something else that you haven’t given much thought to in the past few years. It is not that they don’t like you.  They do. They are glad you are finally “home.” But those “back home” people simply can not relate to your experiences “out there” in that country with the funny name whose people have even funnier (and unpronounceable) names.

On “home assignment”, people say to you, “Isn’t it great to be home!” and you think, “Yeah, kind of.” Now that you’ve had a few of your favorite foods and seen a few old friends, there are fewer reasons to stay “home.” You start to miss all those things about your host country that you came to love. Certain foods, local friends, the ministry role that you were happily engaged in. 

Home is no longer home. And sadly, that other place on the mission field will never truly be home either. Home is both places, and neither place, at the same time.                                                                             

When at “home”, the missionary dreams about their host country. When in their host country, the missionary dreams about their home country.

Missionaries are forever caught between two worlds. They can no longer completely identify with the people whom they left behind in the home country. But they can never truly identify with the people in their host country.

Home is everywhere. Home is nowhere.

But that’s okay. There have been other travelers on this road.

“These all died in faith, not having received the things promised, but having seen them and greeted them from afar, and having acknowledged that they were strangers and exiles on the earth. For people who speak thus make it clear that they are seeking a homeland. If they had been thinking of that land from which they had gone out, they would have had an opportunity to return. But as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared for them a city.” Hebrews 11:13-16

While here on earth, we will always feel a bit unsettled and out of place. Missionaries and those of us living away from the place we grew up might experience that more than others. But someday, all those who trust in the Lord Jesus Christ will finally be home again.

Source: http://www.dahlfred.com/index.php/blogs/gleanings-from-the-field/747-why-missionaries-can-never-go-home-againSee also bio information at: http://www.dahlfred.com/index.php/about-us/bio

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Same Gender Marriage ― An Orthodox Perspective

Uploaded to youtube.com via Modern Challenges of Faith on August 7, 2011

New York became the 6th state in the United States to pass legislation to allow same gender marriage. Some of the advocates that helped bring this law on the books were various Christian denominations such as the Episcopal Church, the United Church of Christ, and the Anglican Lutheran Church. This episode brings a very solid, Word of God-based perspective on the matter.

Please click the highlighted-in-blue link above to hear an excellent Word of God-based view of a current topic of discussion in our nation.